Upon reading the newspaper for the past two weeks, i noticed the increase in the number of suicide cases, attempted murdering and more. What does it imply? Does it means that as we grow both physically and mentally, we become more fragile. Everyone goes through the same stage in life,just that everyone face a different form of it. Why do this group of people fall? This is the stigma of the youth. Let’s break down the process and find out what really went wrong.
1. Problem surfaced
2. Concealing
3. Pressure built-up
4. The end
Problem surface
In life,it is impossible to have no problem surfacing in our life. As our mind grows, it is undeniable that we think much more and create problem for ourselves. Things that do not matter years ago, become unsolvable problems. It is only when we face the problems bravely, may the problems be solved. Many a time, problems are not really “problem”, it is decision in disguise. When we made the right choice, the problem is solved. Even if we do make a wrong choice, it is a lesson learnt and not considered as a failure. When we avoid making decision it lead to the next stage, concealing.
As the name suggested, hide the problem. Many choose to hide the problem, deceiving themselves. When they hid the problem, they thought the problem is not there anymore, but subconsciously the problem remains and may continue to become worse. They think by forgetting the problem means the problem is solved. This will make the matter worst. As they continues to lead their everyday life, leaving the problem unsolved. It’s just like the snowball rolling down the mountain, it gets bigger and bigger. Rolling on to the next stage.
Pressure built-up
There will be the time when they cannot continues to deceive themselves. This is when they had to face the problem yet again, but this time round, in a worst condition. As all of us know, one problem leads to another. By the time they are willing to stand up to the problem, it might be too late. Be what is left might not be the end. When they snap out of their comfort zone and face the problem, then they will be free from it.In their case, it is different. They did not have the courage to face a smaller problem, will they have the courage to face something bigger? The answer is obviously no in most case. The final stage..
The end
As the title suggested. The final method to solve their problem. Many chose this method over the rest even though they know it should not even be on the last of their list. I have to highlight, the problem does not solve itself even when the main lead is dead. It may be brought over to the innocents or their family member. In most case, most of the dead’s family have to face not only the problem but the grief of losing a loved one.
I wrote this article,not to mock at anyone but to bring up the awareness of the current situation. Before i end this post, what i want to say is my condolence.
